The Book & Workshop
Reclaiming Control
A Journey of Faith, Fatherhood, and Overcoming Parental Alienation
Written by Matheos — a father who lived it. This book is for every man who has felt powerless in the family court system and needs the truth of Scripture to anchor him.
About the Book
After facing more than 50 malicious reports, repeated court delays, coached statements from his daughter, and systemic bias, Matheos refused to give up. Instead, he documented everything, strengthened his faith, and turned his pain into purpose. Reclaiming Control equips fathers to regain control of their lives, recognize parental alienation, respond to false allegations, and protect their relationship with their children — with integrity and perseverance. It is not a legal guide. It is a lifeline.
Available in Kindle ($9.71), Paperback ($20.99), and Hardcover ($39.61) on Amazon.
"He will turn the hearts of the fathers to their children."
— Malachi 4:6
10-Week Workshop
Reclaiming Control: The Workshop
Based on the book and rooted in biblical teaching, this 10-week workshop walks men through the principles of Reclaiming Control in community. Each week builds on the last — from understanding your identity as a father, to navigating the court system with faith, to walking in restoration.
Who You Are
Establishing your identity as a man and father before God — not as the court defines you.
The Enemy of Fatherhood
Understanding the spiritual and systemic forces working against fathers and families.
Parental Alienation
What it is, how to recognize it, and how to respond without losing yourself.
Faith in the Fire
How to hold onto God when the system feels impossible and hope is hard to find.
The Court System
Practical wisdom for navigating hearings, documentation, and legal processes with integrity.
Anger & Forgiveness
Processing the rage — and learning to forgive without excusing what was done.
Brotherhood
Why no man should walk this road alone, and how to build a circle that holds you.
Your Children's Hearts
How to stay connected to your kids through the chaos, and what they need from you most.
Restoration
What restoration looks like — in your family, your faith, and your own soul.
Rise Up
Stepping into the man, father, and leader God called you to be — and bringing others with you.
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